There is no medical reason why you cannot have sex while getting chemotherapy or radiotherapy if you feel like it. However, coming to terms with the fact that you have cancer can take quite a while. Your emotions will be turned upside down. It can be hard to relax when you have a lot on your mind. You may also be feeling tired from the effects of treatment. As a result you may become uninterested in sex. This is a normal way to feel at this time. One common fear is that cancer can be passed on to your partner during intercourse. This is not true. It is perfectly safe for you to resume a sexual relationship.

There is no set time for you to be ready to have sex again. It varies from person to person. Once you return to your usual routine your interest in sex should return. If you have a supportive partner, you may find that talking about your feelings will help ease your anxiety. Even if you do not feel like having sex you can still enjoy a close and loving relationship with your partner. You should not feel guilty or embarrassed to talk your doctor or nurse about what is troubling you; he or she may refer you for specialist counselling if you think that would be helpful.